What Will I Study?
This is a 6-unit self-study course. You are free to study at your own pace. You will retain access to the course for as long as you need. Each lesson will offer roughly 60 minutes of video teachings. There will also be prompts for reflection, optional quizzes, and a communal discussion board.
As part of your training in these qualities of the heart, Christina and Chris will suggest take-home practices, including meditation and contemplation, for you to explore between units.
Unit 1 | The Embodied Heart
Kindness, joy, compassion, equanimity: with these resources of the heart developed, we find a deep stability, a deep sense of being resilient and resourced that enables us to cope with life's challenges and fully enjoy its peaks. Grounding ourselves in the body, an intention of friendliness towards ourselves and others can free us from anxieties and overwhelm, and serve as the beginning of a path to true freedom.
Unit 2 | Kindness
A simple attitude of kindness and friendliness—known in the Buddha's teachings as lovingkindness—is the first of the four brahma-viharas we will explore in detail. This foundational quality sets the emotional tone for the qualities that follow. We will learn that although kindness does concentrate the mind it also contains the seeds of liberating insight through its capacity to counteract aversion.
Unit 3 | Joy
One of the distinctive features of Christina and Chris' approach to the brahma-viharas is a shake-up of their traditional sequence. In this approach, joy comes before compassion. This helps by building our inner resources before we turn to face the difficult.
There is much in life that is joyous and, if we cultivate delight in the joys of others, we will always find a reason for happiness. Yet the mind has a natural bias towards negativity and anxiety that too often nullifies the sense of wonder and joy it is possible to live life with. Fortunately, we can notice and strengthen our sense of joy through intentional practice and reflection.
Unit 4 | Compassion
Life contains suffering—this is the Buddha's first noble truth. We cannot avoid pain but we can change our relationship to it. Instead of denial, minimizing, bargaining, or pushing it away, we can simply acknowledge our hurt and the suffering of those we love. When we do this the heart can begin to open to, and meet, our pain in surprising ways.
Unit 5 | Equanimity
Equanimity represents the full maturity of the heart. When we no longer feel the need to chase after the pleasant and avoid the unpleasant there is peace, freedom, and wisdom. This is not indifference. In fact, this is true engagement with our heart, mind, body, and the world—to be comfortable and curious in the midst of life and the impermanent, impersonal, flow of experience whether pleasing or unpleasant.
Unit 6 | The Awakened Heart
We conclude by drawing the four qualities together and exploring how their cultivation leads to a responsive engagement with life. This is a path that leads back out into the world. It is not limited to personal development, but includes the complexities, challenges, and joys of authentic relationship to others.